Wednesday, January 16, 2008

Long 26 Years

Long 26 Years

People often call, recognize and introduce her with symbolic words calling her “Better Half”. Today on the 16th January, while looking back in time stream, after spending 26 long years of life journey in her company in the most important phase ”Grahasth Aashram” of life. According to Hindu life vision life is composed of four phases “Brahamcharaya Aashram”, “Grasth Aashram”, Vanprasth Aashram” and “Sanyas Aashram” namely each phase composed of time period of almost 25 years and among all the four phases Grahasth Aashram is considered as the most important because all the other three phases of life are being supported from this “Grahasth Aashram” only, hence if the people calling her, the better half what is wrong in it.

She is the better half of life in true sense because all your achievements and success are her gift for you. I even fear to imagine if she has not kept me free from the stresses of day to day life, I might have not even dreamed of reaching to all the success destinations crossed by me during all these years. She enters into your life only after leaving a rich world of affection behind her and makes your life full of happiness and enjoyment and gives a meaning and purpose for your existence on the earth. Look at her, she has to starts all it from the beginning, she come from a different family and a little bit different social atmosphere, has to forget all her previous customs, traditions, habits and liking to shape and get accustom with all the way may be the new customs, traditions, and different set of habits, liking and disliking in very short span of time to become integral part of your life. I with my personal experience can say how difficult it is to get rid of just one habit as since last 15 years or so I am trying to give up my almost 30 years old smoking habit but still running only with failure. How great she is, she not leave a single habit but changes all of her habits completely in no time to adjust with life style adopted by you and family members of your family.

The most important contribution to your life by her is the day when she gives you opportunity to be called and known as the father and helps you in performing the most important obligation “Kanya Dan” for reaching to life aim of human beings Salvation. Just imagine of your life desert turned into a flowery garden by her allowing you to go for your life aims with her attitude of scarifying her dreams and life aims for sheer success of yours. She has faced all your anger, agony and non satisfaction at several walks of life and still comes with you with a smile and inspiration for your success.

On this 26th celebrating day of marriage anniversary I am recognizing and saluting all the efforts of her for making my life meaningful with some definite purpose of living and allowing me to live with a social respect and great degree of success in all these year. I wish and believe ever mighty and omnipresent “WAHEGURU” will keep on blessing us not only for the rest of this life but many more lives if we are bound to exists in them. I also wish to acknowledge that it is all the way sounds of “Shobha’s” laughing, which has made all these long 26 years into happening of yesterday.

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